Traveling Solo

I’ve travelled to many wonderful cities since I gave in to my wanderlust, and have loved nearly every place that I’ve visited. But, when I recall my solo trip to Germany  and Italy, I will always say that it was my best vacation ever. EVER!

I had never travelled solo for vacation before. I’d travelled many times for work and conferences ( work/school related), but more often than not, I’d always see someone who I knew or strike up a friendship with someone also attending the conference.

But this time, I was all alone.

My itinerary was set for 2 weeks. I  left Atlanta and landed in Munich. From there, I visited with family in Germany for a week. After that week, I kissed them goodbye and boarded the train for Italy. Destination: Venice. Party of one.

No, I didn’t know anyone there.

No, I didn’t ( and still don’t) speak Italian.


The train ride through southern Germany and through Austria was picture postcard magic. Just beautiful. Being alone, forced me to look out the window and see the world as it whizzed by. Just before the train arrived in Venice ( Italy), the sea salt air beckoned me to lean out the window and take it all in. I got a taxi to the hotel from the train station and settled into my room overlooking the Grand Canal. Bella!!! Soon, my wander got the best of me and I had to hit the pavement! I love cities that are easy to navigate on foot, and Venice is definitely a walking city ( no cars are allowed). There are seemingly endless mazes of sidewalks and bridges, and it’s nearly impossible to take a boring photo there.  I walked for hours, well past sundown and found the city more alluring by moonlight. After my first few hours of solitude, I began to settle in. Even at night, I felt safer than I have ever felt in the USA. Of course, I used common sense, (and recommend that you do as well); no visiting dark alleys, no rides with strangers, etc. I checked in with home daily and alerted them of my daily itinerary. After a few days in Venice, and learning a few phrases ( Ciao!), I moved on to the next stop, Milan. After Milan, I spent the last days of my solo sojourn in Rome, the Eternal City, and my adopted second home.

So why was this vacation my best EVER?? For the most part of that vacation, I was footloose and fancy free. No rules. No guidelines. No expectations…And I loved every minute of it!! I danced to my own rhythm. I got up when I wanted. I went where I wanted and stayed and as long as I chose. I changed my plans on the fly- and no one objected. I ate when and where I wanted. I lingered  at tables over a bottle of wine and watched the world go by. I did exactly what I wanted to do, precisely when I intended.

I discovered a love of Italy, and consider it my European home. But most importantly, I learned how to enjoy being in my own company. That being alone does not equate to being lonely. I got out of my comfort zone and talked to strangers. I tried new things. And in the end, experienced Italy in a way that probably wouldn’t have been possible in someone else’s presence.

Now that I am a wife and mother, being away from them for 2 weeks would be nearly impossible for many reasons. But I will always hold this trip with special fondness. I recommend that,  if possible, take a solo vacation. You’ll be enriched for many years afterwards!

Some tips for traveling solo….

  1. Give a family member ( or someone else that you trust) a COLOR copy of your passport photo page and driver’s license in case of emergency.
  2. Give a copy of your itinerary, including how you will travel. Flight and/or train numbers, time of arrival/departure. Name, address and phone number of all hotels where you will stay and the dates of arrival/departure. Your hotel room number.
  3. Give a copy of your medical history, including illnesses and medications and name/contact info of your treating physician(s).
  4. Location of the embassy in every country you will visit.
  5. Put a color copy of your passport in every piece of your luggage.
  6. Before you take a tour, research it and make sure it is legit.
  7. Take only authorized transportation. Be wary of random people offering transportation at train stations and airports.
  8. Use common sense- be it day or night.

Enjoy your travels and tell us about your solo treks!

~Dr. Peaches & Miss Pickles

42 Things I’ve Learned 

It’s my birthday! So to commemorate my 42nd, I decided to share some adult life lessons that I’ve learned. Let me pause here to give an honorable mention to walking, talking, reading, writing, and potty training, as they have had an immeasurable impact on my life’s education thus far. (Wink)

1. Change will happen. Roll with it.

2. Don’t make decisions out of desperation or fear- it will end badly.

3. It’s ok to change your mind…and change it again.

4. The unexpected can be wonderful.

5. Patience but not procrastination.

6. God first, family second. I am third.

7. Family before work.

8. Money has its’ place, but in the end it’s only a tool and you can’t take it with you.

9. Learn to enjoy your own company. It’s ok to be alone sometimes.

10. Slow down.

11. Small, seemingly insignificant moments can be huge in retrospect.

12. Shoes are good. Handbags are better.

13. Do the most.

14. Have dessert.

15. Never stop learning new things.

16. Failure isn’t the worst thing that can happen to you.

17. Embrace your crazy- but don’t show it to just anybody.

18. Friendships are the best of things.

19. Sometimes walking away is a good thing.

20. Trust but verify.

21. Remember where you come from.

22. It’s ok to be you.

23. Follow your own path- even when it changes course.

24. Breathe!

25. Be silly sometimes.

26. Take vacations. The world is beautiful.

27. Your self-respect is priceless.

28. Being smart, accomplished, and successful is good. It’s better to be kind.

29. Invest in quality and don’t waste your time and energy on crap. ( This applies to people, places, and things.)

30. Hugs can heal.

31. Sensible shoes need not be ugly.

32. “It’s in my size” is sometimes all the reason you need. Just saying.

33. Pantyhose are evil.

34. Boundaries are healthy.

35. Integrity is everything.

36. “No” is a complete sentence.

37. Know your worth. Accept nothing less.

38. Laughter is good medicine. Insulin is pretty good too.

39. You are enough.

40. If you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of anyone else effectively.

41. Don’t wait to say “I love you” or “I’m sorry.”

And lastly,

42. Birthdays are gifts in and of themselves…but gift gifts are still awesome. (My favorite color is blue and I’m not offended by cash. In case you were curious.)